Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Fairy Tales & Mommy Olympics

A few weeks ago, a lovely St. Gregory's parishioner gave my baby girl a few cute pj sets and a book of fairy tales. I probably haven't read all the typical fairy tales since I was a little girl, mainly because they weren't the type of stories that my nephews were interested in. Anyways - I was really excited to read them to her and have done so over the past few weeks...but after making it through the entire book I realized how different they are reading them as an adult. Some parts are just disturbing (i.e. pushing a person into an oven, the frequency of giving up or stealing first-born babies). Also, I consider myself a pretty solid optimist, but after reading them all, one after another, it did slightly irk me how everything always turned out perfect in the end. Really? Can't Snow White just get a little peeved at Prince Charming for not doing the dishes or something? Either way, I'm sure she will enjoy reading them for years to come!

In honor of the Olympic Games, I've decided to put together a list of events I think should be in the Mommy Olympics:

1) Baby Nail Cutting - this could be an individual or team event. I personally would prefer it was a team event because I would have no chance of winning without my super amazing daddy-distracter.

2) Numb Arm Marathon - how many times has your child finally fell asleep on your arm and you don't necessarily want to move and disturb them? and then your realize your arm is numb, so you do a quick evaluation as to what is worth more - the sleep benefits to your child or potentially having to amputate your left arm. Basically this would be a test of will event that awards Gold to whoever can last the longest before reviving your arm.

3) Super D - This is one of my personal favorites and can be an individual or team sport as well. Basically, trying to change the diaper of a 5+ month old who discovered they no longer want to lay on their back to get their diaper changed and immediately flip over and try to escape. Extra points for successful poopy diaper changes.

4) Speed Eating - Basically how fast you can eat while baby is either sleeping or is entertained by the jumper/exersaucer/playmat/activity chair.

5) Baby Biathlon - Navigating any number of tasks (laundry, cleaning, cooking, etc.) while caring for your infant. This turns into a triathlon if you throw in unnecessarily worrying about basically everything.

6) Synchronized photo taking - what mommy and daddy can do to make baby smile and actually get a decent photo of it. Style points for baby belly laughs, extra points for doing this in public.

I'm sure there are a bunch more but that's all I could remember based on my random thoughts since the Olympics began.

Things I am grateful for today:
1) Having a few-week break from driving in hefty snow...don't get me wrong, I love winter but having to drive in the multiple snowstorms this year has been unpleasant
2) Being constantly busy at work - sometimes I wonder if my to do list will ever end, but it's all really good stuff!
3) All the people I've had the good fortune of talking to about mission work. There have been many lately and I LOVE IT!

Sunday, November 17, 2013

I can't believe this year is almost over!

It's been an exciting couple weeks in our household. Here are a few things that have been going on:

1) Sr. Pat called from Kenya a few weeks ago to let us know they received our first official "Good Friends of the Pokot" donation. They were very excited and it is already being used for a nursery and other educational needs of a remote area near Chepnyal. She was so very grateful for the funds and promised to send pictures when they could. Unfortunately the internet has been very unreliable so we may have to use postal mail...so it could be a bit before we see anything. Either way, we are happy that it has already helped - and we are eager to continue to help so (shameless plug) visit http://pokotfriends.org/ and make your tax-deductible contribution today...every dollar goes a long way!

2) Matt, Millie and I spent an incredible weekend in Indianapolis at the end of October for the Vincentian Family Gathering. We were asked to speak about our VLM experience as part of a Young Adult panel on Saturday afternoon. We also were very fortunate to meet the campus ministers from Niagara University and are looking forward to keeping in touch with them.

It's hard to describe how we felt after that weekend - there were so many great speakers and amazing conversations that summing it up may be virtually impossible.  My mind keeps going back to this: from the second we received the phone call from Sr. Mary Beth back in January 2012, telling us we were accepted into the Vincentian Lay Missionaries program, we felt like we entering into a very special family. That feeling grew even more at orientation, in Kenya, back home in Buffalo and again on this short weekend trip. The best part about it - we are a family dedicated to serving those in need around us. I can't think of any better way to live my life.

We had an awesome time introducing everyone to the youngest Vincentian attending - our daughter. Between the airport and the gathering itself, I'm pretty sure she made a few hundred friends (80% of which were nuns) that weekend.

Participants of the 2013 Vincentian Family Gathering (we are in the very back on the right)

Things I am grateful for this evening:
1) The moments when my baby girl goes to sneeze and can't quite get it out right away. Not sure if anyone other than my husband will know what I'm talking about but the noise that comes out accompanied by her face is probably the cutest thing I've ever seen. And it makes me really happy.
2) Knowing that the small business workshops we held last year actually had an impact on the women in Kenya - we heard some positive feedback from the group that went this year.
3) Having a place to live that satisfies our basic needs.

Saturday, September 21, 2013

Always pray and never give up. - Luke 18:1

I recently came across a website that I thought was pretty neat...www.praymorenovenas.com. Basically you can sign up and get email reminders of the prayers you need to accomplish each day of a novena. So for example, my favorite Saint (and the Saint who my sweet baby girl's middle name is in honor of), St. Therese of Lisieux - her feast day is coming up on October 1. If you sign up on this website, you receive a daily prayer by email for all 9 days beginning September 22 (tomorrow!). When you check your email in the morning, you will have that reminder to pray your novena prayer!

I prayed my first novena this year, thanks to a group of women who offered to pray one with me before our daughter was born.  I have to say it was quite refreshing, and I looked forward to praying to that Saint each day. Try one out on your own and if you like it, sign up on this website and join thousands of others!

St. Therese

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Oh how things have changed!

I know I am doing a terrible job at being a "regular" blogger and most likely alienating my readers, but what can I say, I'm a strong believer in absence makes the heart grow fonder!

Here are a few updates since last we met:

  • Our launch of the Good Friends of the Pokot website was a huge success in it's first round and it is still up and running for those of you who would like to donate (http://pokotfriends.org/  every dollar goes a really long way!). Our first "drive" in July allowed us to send $3000 to Kenya with the new VLM this year which we were really excited about! Soon after, we received an email from Sister Pat in Chepnyal saying she was wondering how they were going to fund Cheptesok and that they were very grateful for the donation to help take care of the educational needs there. I will be in touch with the 2013 VLM shortly to get some photos and updates from this year. 
  • Speaking of which, we received a letter from Gabriel, our beloved driver asking when we are coming back. Oh how I hope it will be sooner rather than later!
  • Our big news - we are parents now! Our sweet baby girl Millie arrived in June and by God's grace has improved our lives more than we could've imagined! I will be like every parent now and say what is typically said about their own children: she is so stinkin' cute! Of course you may judge for yourself by looking at the photo below. Warning: be prepared to smile! :)
  • We were asked by the director of VLM to speak as part of their presentation at the Vincentian Family Gathering in October. We are very honored and excited to share how the Vincentian charism has improved our lives as Young Adults and how it has influenced our volunteerism and focus on helping those in need.
  • One of my favorite people in the entire world, Katie W., who served as my intern for the past 3 years, is currently serving the people of Jamaica for a full year! She left in July and will return next August. Please keep her in your prayers...and you can keep up with her year of service by clicking here. Be prepared to be challenged...and entertained, she is a delight!
  • Another of my favorites in the entire world, Sr. Maria Christi (formerly known as Katie D.) has recently become a Novice with the Sister's of St. Francis of the Martyr St. George. Please keep her in your prayers as well as she continues her formation!

Our little sweet pea

I think that is it for now! I will keep you posted about our beloved friends in Chepnyal and other such life happenings. But now it is time to sign off in my usual fashion!

Things I am grateful for this day:
1) Our amazing Pope Francis...my heart bursts with love for that fantastic man of God.
2) My sweet baby girl - I thank God for her every day...and probably about a thousand times a day.
3) The Vincentian Family - that they see the importance of collaboration and gathering together to discuss how we can truly make an impact on providing to those in need and decreasing poverty...and that they know the importance of involving youth and young adults in their endeavors!

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Good Friends of the Pokot Officially Launched!

So, about four months ago  (you can read about the good reason for my continued delinquency below!) I promised a link to our fundraising website for our Pokot Friends. I am proud to say that after months of hard work, we have launched "Good Friends of the Pokot" which can be found at http://pokotfriends.org/.

What is this website? The simple answer is that it is our way of continuing our service to the people and children of Chepnyal, Kenya. While there were many projects we could have assisted with, we decided to focus on education this year. I invite you to take a look at the website (http://pokotfriends.org), read about our projects and ask that you consider donating to our cause. All contributions will go directly toward the completion of the projects detailed. U.S. Dollars go a LONG way in Kenya, so no amount is too small! If you are unable to donate, we would be grateful if you could simply keep our Pokot friends in your thoughts and prayers!

After a really long day yesterday, I received a note from one of the Sister's in Thigio, Kenya which totally turned my day around and made me so happy to read. It was a response to a thank you note I had written to her for the baby blanket she knitted for our newest, upcoming family member, Baby A (Baby A as in Baby Astridge, not Baby A as in there are two - since twins do run in my family!). So our focus, while still dedicated to service to those in need, has shifted slightly to prepare ourselves for becoming parents! Good excuse for taking so long right?

Family Shower Day

Cake from my work shower -
of course it has a Giraffe, Elephant
and Monkey on it!
This was a cake one of Matt's co-workers made...
loved the baby nose-diving into the cake!
Other than the preparation and excitement surrounding our upcoming arrival, we also were able to hang out with Nick and Raelynne in February and meet some of the 2013 VLM who are current St. John's students! That was a really great trip and was so nice to spend time with everyone.

A special thanks to Kevin Manne and Buffalo Business for featuring our work in their alumni magazine! Here is a link to that article for anyone interested: http://mgt.buffalo.edu/sites/magazine/features/astridge.html

Things I am grateful for today:
1) Launching the Good Friends of the Pokot Website and continuing to support our efforts in Africa.
2) A healthy little baby who likes to kick its momma.
3) Looking back and having relief and thorough gratitude for the safe presidential elections that took place in Kenya back in March.

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Happy New Year!

It’s been so long – I feel like such a slacker but part of my delay in online journaling is that I’ve been doing a lot of hand-written journaling. So archaic I know – but for some reason once we got back, it has been hard for me to be on the computer all the time. Almost seems too easy with a fast internet here in the States!

The past few months have brought many happy moments: meeting and having dinner with the Daughters of Charity at Sister’s Hospital, the October VLM retreat in Chicago (http://share.shutterfly.com/action/welcome?sid=8IatmLZy4cMqq), meeting and having dinner with Fr. Freund, the Buffalo Vincentian gathering in November, and of course, the contact we have kept with the Sister’s in Kenya. It has been both by email and by phone, although the phone conversations are often cut off multiple times because of reception, but that’s ok, we just call right back!

We are excited to be launching our fundraising website very soon – as the adults and children of Kenya remain in our hearts, we know we need to continue to help them. We figured although it may be small, it is our way of showing them we are thinking about them and caring for them from afar. I will post that link as soon as it becomes available…it should be in the next few weeks! 

Matt and I constantly joked throughout 2012 that it was the year of nothing…only because we didn’t do many of our usual Buffalove events, like the Ride for Roswell. I am drawing a blank right now because I know there were many examples that I had from throughout the year but cannot think of them at the moment – probably because the examples themselves are not important. The beginning of the year brought a few major stresses in my life. I can remember being in Adoration feeling helpless and wondering why things were happening the way they were. I've heard the phrase so many times before, but all I can remember from that time now was finally, "letting go and letting God." I can't say it was some huge turnaround in my life, but the beginning of something that will always keep me going. 2012 really was the beginning of many, many great things for me, Matt, and our relationship with one another. Turns out the year of nothing really was the year of something great.

Four things I am so grateful for on this first day of 2013:
1) My husband. He really is awesome. 
2) The love and support we received from our families this year.
3) The best girlfriends - those who are near, and those in Alton, DC, Boston, Detroit and Hawaii whom I miss dearly.
4) Our Vincentian family here in Buffalo and throughout the world, and our friends Raelynne and Nick.